1 00:00:00,595 --> 00:00:03,325 - It's once again time to get gutsy with Liz Hall 2 00:00:03,385 --> 00:00:06,325 and her expert guests on the Gutsy Babe Podcast. 3 00:00:07,315 --> 00:00:09,005 - Welcome to the Gutsy Babe Podcast. 4 00:00:09,465 --> 00:00:10,885 I'm your host, Liz Hall. 5 00:00:11,385 --> 00:00:14,605 On today's episode, we'll be talking with author, lecturer 6 00:00:14,605 --> 00:00:17,525 and intuitive life purpose coach Adam Banning. 7 00:00:18,025 --> 00:00:20,645 He has authored two books on human potential 8 00:00:20,825 --> 00:00:23,085 and has lectured on them throughout the world. 9 00:00:23,505 --> 00:00:24,725 In his private practice, 10 00:00:24,725 --> 00:00:28,325 he combines advanced coaching techniques with ancient wisdom 11 00:00:28,465 --> 00:00:31,085 to help people identify their true life purpose 12 00:00:31,425 --> 00:00:32,925 and live the life of their dreams. 13 00:00:33,435 --> 00:00:35,005 Adam, thanks for joining us today. 14 00:00:35,505 --> 00:00:36,925 - Oh, so good to be here. 15 00:00:36,985 --> 00:00:39,765 Liz, on the Gutsy Babe Podcast. Let's get 16 00:00:39,895 --> 00:00:40,895 gutsy - . 17 00:00:42,585 --> 00:00:44,285 Yes, let's, alright, Adam. 18 00:00:44,425 --> 00:00:47,005 So how did he get involved with Life Purpose Coaching? 19 00:00:47,585 --> 00:00:49,045 - You know, it's really interesting. 20 00:00:49,045 --> 00:00:50,725 I've been quoting coaching for quite a, 21 00:00:51,005 --> 00:00:52,245 a while now, about 30 years now. 22 00:00:52,385 --> 00:00:54,005 And the reason why I got involved 23 00:00:54,005 --> 00:00:56,765 with Life Purpose Coaching was when I was younger, 24 00:00:57,085 --> 00:00:59,365 I had the ability to tell things about people 25 00:00:59,555 --> 00:01:01,205 that I should never be able to know. 26 00:01:01,665 --> 00:01:03,645 My parents were in the rock and roll industry 27 00:01:04,025 --> 00:01:06,925 and, um, they, uh, owned a magazine by the name of Changes, 28 00:01:06,935 --> 00:01:08,525 which was competing with the Rolling Stone. 29 00:01:08,705 --> 00:01:11,205 So we had lots of parties at our big home in New York State, 30 00:01:11,345 --> 00:01:14,285 and at about around the age of seven, I started to talk 31 00:01:14,355 --> 00:01:17,365 with adults and tell them how to solve their problems. 32 00:01:17,865 --> 00:01:20,725 And many of them had questions in their lives like, 33 00:01:20,725 --> 00:01:21,845 am I doing the right thing? 34 00:01:22,545 --> 00:01:24,485 And I was able to give them insights 35 00:01:24,665 --> 00:01:26,765 and answers back when I was seven years old. 36 00:01:26,795 --> 00:01:28,285 They actually brought me to have me 37 00:01:28,285 --> 00:01:29,725 tested, uh, for psychic abilities. 38 00:01:29,725 --> 00:01:31,325 And I heard I tested very high for them. 39 00:01:31,745 --> 00:01:34,165 So I've always been using my intuition. 40 00:01:34,265 --> 00:01:37,165 But one of the biggest things that people in the field 41 00:01:37,165 --> 00:01:39,845 of coaching hear from clients is, you know, something, 42 00:01:39,965 --> 00:01:41,245 I don't think I'm in the right field. 43 00:01:41,425 --> 00:01:42,885 You know, something I need to change. 44 00:01:43,225 --> 00:01:45,805 You know, something, I'm at that point of transition. 45 00:01:45,835 --> 00:01:48,405 What should I do with my life? What is my life purpose? 46 00:01:48,985 --> 00:01:52,245 So I started creating algorithms, um, to be able 47 00:01:52,365 --> 00:01:53,965 to support my intuition in the matter 48 00:01:54,145 --> 00:01:55,765 and helping a lot of people out. 49 00:01:55,825 --> 00:01:58,245 So it was, it was based on need. 50 00:01:58,245 --> 00:01:59,565 That's how I got involved in it. 51 00:01:59,605 --> 00:02:02,485 I wanted to find ways to set people on the right trajectory 52 00:02:02,555 --> 00:02:04,885 towards their life and purpose, 53 00:02:05,145 --> 00:02:06,565 and also allowing them 54 00:02:06,565 --> 00:02:08,365 to have a more blissful and meaningful life. 55 00:02:09,405 --> 00:02:12,615 - It's beautiful. So, clearly, clearly this was your 56 00:02:12,615 --> 00:02:13,615 purpose, - . 57 00:02:13,615 --> 00:02:14,735 Yes. I am driven in this 58 00:02:14,735 --> 00:02:15,735 direction. - . 59 00:02:16,755 --> 00:02:19,815 So can you share an inspirational story about 60 00:02:19,835 --> 00:02:21,815 how your coaching helped transform the life 61 00:02:21,815 --> 00:02:23,215 of a client in your practice? 62 00:02:23,765 --> 00:02:25,815 - Yeah, yeah. There, there are a number of 'em. My goodness. 63 00:02:25,815 --> 00:02:28,095 It's, it's literally so rewarding 64 00:02:28,095 --> 00:02:30,895 because there are so many individuals, uh, uh, uh, 65 00:02:30,895 --> 00:02:33,655 that I've been able to assist and help with. 66 00:02:34,275 --> 00:02:36,695 One of them was a real estate professional. 67 00:02:36,875 --> 00:02:38,855 He was a vice president of one company 68 00:02:39,115 --> 00:02:40,535 and it was commercial real estate. 69 00:02:41,195 --> 00:02:42,415 And he was having problems 70 00:02:42,415 --> 00:02:46,255 because the individuals he was working with, uh, the, the, 71 00:02:46,255 --> 00:02:48,695 let's say the culture of the group that he was working 72 00:02:48,695 --> 00:02:50,615 with was just very, very stressful. 73 00:02:50,635 --> 00:02:52,135 And it was very cutthroat. 74 00:02:52,355 --> 00:02:56,455 And I, I had seen in my mind's eye another company out there 75 00:02:56,605 --> 00:02:58,335 that has a much better culture 76 00:02:58,755 --> 00:03:02,125 and one that would give him a million dollar signing bonus. 77 00:03:03,835 --> 00:03:07,525 Yeah, . So what I did was, is I went into state, 78 00:03:08,085 --> 00:03:09,125 I counseled him on it. 79 00:03:09,205 --> 00:03:12,365 I used some algorithms as it related to what he wants out 80 00:03:12,365 --> 00:03:13,765 of a job and what he wants out of a career 81 00:03:13,765 --> 00:03:15,645 that I've created, uh, helping people 82 00:03:15,645 --> 00:03:16,725 with their life mission. 83 00:03:17,025 --> 00:03:20,965 And, uh, we got him in touch with that competitor of his 84 00:03:21,385 --> 00:03:23,365 and I worked with him in negotiations. 85 00:03:23,685 --> 00:03:26,525 'cause I also work in negotiation telling people, um, 86 00:03:26,555 --> 00:03:28,565 what the other party's gonna say before they say it. 87 00:03:28,785 --> 00:03:30,605 So it's very helpful with negotiations. 88 00:03:30,985 --> 00:03:32,525 And we got him a very recently 89 00:03:32,685 --> 00:03:33,765 a million dollar signing bonus. 90 00:03:34,385 --> 00:03:37,125 So that was a game changer for him. And I'm, and I'm glad 91 00:03:37,755 --> 00:03:38,755 - That is inspiring. 92 00:03:38,995 --> 00:03:43,205 Yeah. Can I ask you what techniques on your algorithms 93 00:03:43,205 --> 00:03:44,365 that you use for this? 94 00:03:44,945 --> 00:03:46,805 - You know, it's interesting when you take a look at the 95 00:03:46,805 --> 00:03:49,685 techniques of the algorithms, there's five things I look at. 96 00:03:49,985 --> 00:03:53,165 The first thing I look at is what I call the divine toolkit. 97 00:03:53,825 --> 00:03:56,045 Why do I call it a divine toolkit? And what is it? 98 00:03:56,395 --> 00:03:57,685 Well, there are certain things 99 00:03:57,685 --> 00:04:00,365 that every single individual does easily, 100 00:04:00,475 --> 00:04:01,845 even though they didn't get trained in it. 101 00:04:01,845 --> 00:04:03,445 It's like some people are just good at math, 102 00:04:03,715 --> 00:04:05,645 some people are just like, you put 'em in the kitchen 103 00:04:05,665 --> 00:04:07,045 and all of a sudden they show up like, you know, 104 00:04:07,045 --> 00:04:11,725 Gordon Ramsey, you know, um, so these items within 105 00:04:12,235 --> 00:04:15,125 your Divine toolkit, it is my belief 106 00:04:15,435 --> 00:04:16,965 that you are sent down here 107 00:04:17,665 --> 00:04:21,405 to utilize these items in your divine toolkit, these, 108 00:04:21,695 --> 00:04:25,205 these abilities to experience your life purpose. 109 00:04:25,705 --> 00:04:27,445 So when somebody says, Hey, you know something, 110 00:04:27,445 --> 00:04:29,045 I'm good at drawing, but you know, I'm never gonna use that. 111 00:04:29,765 --> 00:04:32,525 I believe that's garbage. It's gonna be some part of it. 112 00:04:32,755 --> 00:04:34,205 Alright. We want you 113 00:04:34,205 --> 00:04:36,645 to utilize all the things you came down here with. 114 00:04:37,025 --> 00:04:40,525 So that would be an area of what do you seem to do easily? 115 00:04:41,225 --> 00:04:42,565 And you can't explain why, 116 00:04:42,725 --> 00:04:43,885 'cause you never received training on it, 117 00:04:44,465 --> 00:04:45,485 or you started that way 118 00:04:45,545 --> 00:04:47,485 and you did it easily, maybe got more training on it, 119 00:04:47,745 --> 00:04:49,285 but you started out with it being easily, 120 00:04:49,285 --> 00:04:50,725 that's the first category. 121 00:04:51,235 --> 00:04:53,125 Okay. I actually have a sheet for this, 122 00:04:53,505 --> 00:04:55,685 and if anybody wants a sheet sent to them 123 00:04:55,985 --> 00:04:57,285 so they can figure it out themselves. 124 00:04:57,745 --> 00:05:00,645 Yes. And all you have to do is send, um, an email 125 00:05:00,785 --> 00:05:04,485 to the Adam, that's the Adam Harman, 126 00:05:04,645 --> 00:05:06,645 H-A-R-M-A-N show. 127 00:05:07,345 --> 00:05:10,615 So it's the Adam Harman show@gmail.com 128 00:05:11,235 --> 00:05:13,895 and just say, send me the life mission sheet 129 00:05:14,355 --> 00:05:15,935 and I will get that out to you at no charge. 130 00:05:15,935 --> 00:05:18,175 So you have that. So the first section there is 131 00:05:18,175 --> 00:05:20,095 that divine tool, divine toolkit, 132 00:05:20,315 --> 00:05:22,335 things you do really well, but you don't know why. 133 00:05:22,755 --> 00:05:26,015 The next one is, is what kind of help do people 134 00:05:26,435 --> 00:05:28,735 or other people right now, what kind 135 00:05:28,735 --> 00:05:31,255 of help do they commonly ask you for? 136 00:05:31,355 --> 00:05:33,935 You know, it's really funny when you're, especially, 137 00:05:33,935 --> 00:05:36,415 you're dealing with people who've known you for a while. 138 00:05:36,725 --> 00:05:39,335 They see things about you that you don't see about yourself. 139 00:05:39,995 --> 00:05:42,255 So when they ask you to do things, it's 140 00:05:42,255 --> 00:05:43,975 because they've received certain cues, 141 00:05:43,975 --> 00:05:45,135 whether it be instinctual 142 00:05:45,135 --> 00:05:47,215 or whether it be based on data points 143 00:05:47,235 --> 00:05:49,095 and information that, uh, or, 144 00:05:49,155 --> 00:05:51,015 or things that they've observed about you. 145 00:05:51,555 --> 00:05:53,695 Um, this is really, really important as well. 146 00:05:54,235 --> 00:05:55,415 So write down a list of those. 147 00:05:55,445 --> 00:05:58,605 What kind of things do people ask you for help with? 148 00:05:59,345 --> 00:06:02,605 The third area is what kind of jobs have you had in the past 149 00:06:02,705 --> 00:06:04,845 for more than six months in your adult life? 150 00:06:04,945 --> 00:06:06,445 And what parts of 'em do you like doing? 151 00:06:07,035 --> 00:06:08,965 It's interesting, I, I had one of my clients 152 00:06:09,385 --> 00:06:12,525 who was an accountant, and he said to me, you know, 153 00:06:12,525 --> 00:06:14,845 something, I wasted 20 years being an accountant. 154 00:06:15,285 --> 00:06:17,685 I wanna be a food influencer and be a chef. 155 00:06:18,495 --> 00:06:20,315 And I'm like, no, you didn't. 156 00:06:20,735 --> 00:06:21,915 And he's like, what do you mean ? 157 00:06:22,975 --> 00:06:26,195 And it turns out that every single thing you do 158 00:06:26,195 --> 00:06:29,075 for more than six months is a choice, I believe, 159 00:06:29,335 --> 00:06:32,155 on a subconscious and soul level to be able to learn more 160 00:06:32,655 --> 00:06:34,555 so you can fulfill your life purpose. 161 00:06:35,385 --> 00:06:38,835 That, that gentleman ended up being a food influencer. 162 00:06:39,415 --> 00:06:42,475 But he talks all about the economics of food 163 00:06:42,775 --> 00:06:44,955 and how to be able to make the budget stretch 164 00:06:45,255 --> 00:06:47,035 and how to be wiser with the budget. 165 00:06:47,335 --> 00:06:48,675 So he took all of his accounting 166 00:06:48,975 --> 00:06:50,275 and he put it into this as well. 167 00:06:50,295 --> 00:06:53,035 We are a compilation of all of our experiences. 168 00:06:53,495 --> 00:06:55,915 So asking what kind of jobs have you had in the past before 169 00:06:55,915 --> 00:06:57,115 and what parts of them do you like, 170 00:06:57,165 --> 00:06:59,435 especially over six months within your adult life. 171 00:06:59,975 --> 00:07:01,555 That's a big indicator as well. 172 00:07:02,735 --> 00:07:05,675 The number four thing is name three things you're most proud 173 00:07:05,675 --> 00:07:08,355 of doing in your life and why you're proud of them. 174 00:07:08,735 --> 00:07:10,875 You know, that feeling. You ever get that feeling 175 00:07:11,325 --> 00:07:13,595 where you're just on purpose, you know what I mean? 176 00:07:13,655 --> 00:07:15,315 It feels like the wind's beneath your wings. 177 00:07:15,315 --> 00:07:17,475 You've gotten that feeling before, right? Yes. 178 00:07:17,945 --> 00:07:19,315 It's a marvelous feeling. 179 00:07:19,855 --> 00:07:22,075 And basically speaking, those are many 180 00:07:22,075 --> 00:07:23,275 of the things you're also proud of 181 00:07:23,275 --> 00:07:25,355 because it matches your needs 182 00:07:25,355 --> 00:07:28,075 and shows you that you can do certain things 183 00:07:28,075 --> 00:07:29,715 that maybe you hadn't done before. 184 00:07:30,265 --> 00:07:33,315 Okay. So really listing those three things you're proud of, 185 00:07:33,335 --> 00:07:35,475 that's also indicators of 186 00:07:35,475 --> 00:07:37,155 what your life purpose and life mission is. 187 00:07:37,775 --> 00:07:40,635 And then lastly, what things make you happy? 188 00:07:40,745 --> 00:07:43,475 What excites you from day to day? 189 00:07:43,475 --> 00:07:44,515 Everybody stands there and go, 190 00:07:44,585 --> 00:07:46,235 I've got this goal, I've got that goal. 191 00:07:46,545 --> 00:07:50,435 Okay. And they looking into the future at this goal, 192 00:07:51,135 --> 00:07:53,075 but there is no future yet. 193 00:07:53,255 --> 00:07:54,835 The only time that exists is now. 194 00:07:55,415 --> 00:07:57,235 So you can have that goal in your mind, 195 00:07:57,775 --> 00:08:00,115 but are you enjoying the path to your goal? 196 00:08:00,185 --> 00:08:01,915 Yeah. That's what's going to sustain you. 197 00:08:02,295 --> 00:08:04,395 Is it going to be giving you things that allow you 198 00:08:04,395 --> 00:08:08,155 to feel energized on purpose, so on and so forth. 199 00:08:08,655 --> 00:08:10,035 So an indicator of that. 200 00:08:10,035 --> 00:08:11,675 What makes you happy and what excites you? 201 00:08:12,105 --> 00:08:13,795 Once you get those things down, 202 00:08:13,905 --> 00:08:15,555 what you notice within the sheet, 203 00:08:15,705 --> 00:08:18,955 this life mission algorithm sheet is you start seeing 204 00:08:19,025 --> 00:08:22,035 repeats from one to the other, where you see the repeats 205 00:08:22,545 --> 00:08:25,195 from one area, starting with what do you do easily, then 206 00:08:25,345 --> 00:08:28,035 what kind of help do people ask you for commonly then 207 00:08:28,225 --> 00:08:29,755 what kind of jobs you've had in the past. 208 00:08:29,865 --> 00:08:31,875 Name three things that you're proud of 209 00:08:31,935 --> 00:08:35,115 and what makes you happy when you start to see repeats. 210 00:08:35,655 --> 00:08:37,955 That's the area in which I pull in, 211 00:08:37,955 --> 00:08:40,915 take a look at the repeats, and then I pull in my intuition. 212 00:08:41,615 --> 00:08:43,315 The intuition is very, very interesting 213 00:08:43,315 --> 00:08:46,875 because I found out that, uh, a mechanism per se 214 00:08:46,875 --> 00:08:49,155 behind my intuition, this was really interesting, 215 00:08:49,415 --> 00:08:50,795 and I teach people this as well, 216 00:08:51,535 --> 00:08:53,835 is within Stephen Hawkings string theory. 217 00:08:53,975 --> 00:08:56,485 Dr. Hawking, remember the one in the wheelchair with the, 218 00:08:56,545 --> 00:08:58,085 the vibrating voice, okay. 219 00:08:58,345 --> 00:09:00,645 Who recently passed, unfortunately, what a great genius. 220 00:09:01,025 --> 00:09:03,245 Within his string theory, he spoke 221 00:09:03,245 --> 00:09:07,085 of some interesting things about the universe 222 00:09:07,345 --> 00:09:08,885 and multiple universes. 223 00:09:09,305 --> 00:09:12,285 He had said, interestingly enough, initially 224 00:09:12,285 --> 00:09:13,405 that it was his belief 225 00:09:13,675 --> 00:09:16,165 that there are eight parallel universes to ours, 226 00:09:16,665 --> 00:09:19,405 but his numbers never really zeroed out. 227 00:09:19,515 --> 00:09:20,965 Zeroing out is something that you want 228 00:09:20,965 --> 00:09:23,125 to happen within mathematics, especially in the area 229 00:09:23,125 --> 00:09:25,085 of physics or other mathematical equations. 230 00:09:25,535 --> 00:09:28,205 Never zeroed out until the final years of his life 231 00:09:28,205 --> 00:09:29,805 before God bless, he passed. 232 00:09:30,185 --> 00:09:32,365 He actually, instead of putting eight in there, 233 00:09:32,385 --> 00:09:33,965 he put infinite in there as a number, 234 00:09:34,385 --> 00:09:36,845 and then all of his equations zeroed out. 235 00:09:37,865 --> 00:09:40,565 So there are infinite parallel universes 236 00:09:40,595 --> 00:09:42,685 with infinite parallel timelines. 237 00:09:43,625 --> 00:09:46,485 And on a certain percentage of those infinite universes, 238 00:09:46,945 --> 00:09:48,565 you are there in one way, shape, 239 00:09:48,565 --> 00:09:51,485 or form, different than you are here in this universe. 240 00:09:52,345 --> 00:09:55,925 So if we take a look at just you being in 1% of infinite 241 00:09:56,565 --> 00:09:58,685 parallel timelines, what's 1% of infinite? 242 00:09:59,165 --> 00:10:03,005 Infinite, okay. So there are infinite permutations as well. 243 00:10:03,515 --> 00:10:05,565 What I found out I was able to do is I was able 244 00:10:05,565 --> 00:10:07,645 to take a look and make an assessment 245 00:10:07,665 --> 00:10:11,565 of these infinite permutations, these infinite timelines as 246 00:10:11,565 --> 00:10:15,805 to the actual types of jobs and careers that you had. 247 00:10:16,225 --> 00:10:19,125 And I pick the ones that have the most hits to them on 248 00:10:19,125 --> 00:10:21,485 that infinite amount of timelines that I can see. 249 00:10:22,045 --> 00:10:23,205 I apply that to the common 250 00:10:23,225 --> 00:10:26,165 and commonality between the different rows within this 251 00:10:26,485 --> 00:10:29,525 specific type of approach of the life mission algorithm. 252 00:10:30,145 --> 00:10:33,285 And we come up with some pretty interesting outcomes 253 00:10:33,785 --> 00:10:35,565 as it relates to a person's life mission. 254 00:10:36,395 --> 00:10:38,535 - What's the average infinite timeline? 255 00:10:38,535 --> 00:10:40,335 Most people have Average number. 256 00:10:41,115 --> 00:10:42,895 - The average percentage. Because even, 257 00:10:43,045 --> 00:10:44,935 even the half a percentage of infinite is still infinite. 258 00:10:45,085 --> 00:10:49,335 Okay. Um, I see people at approximately, um, 259 00:10:49,355 --> 00:10:51,895 and I'm asking my guides about this one Okay. 260 00:10:52,275 --> 00:10:54,855 As an UpToDate, and it's 0.0 261 00:10:54,965 --> 00:10:57,895 0 0 3 2 7. 262 00:10:58,145 --> 00:11:00,375 Percentage of the timelines is about 263 00:11:00,375 --> 00:11:01,855 average, so less than 1%. 264 00:11:02,555 --> 00:11:04,095 - Oh wow. - But still, even 265 00:11:04,095 --> 00:11:06,095 that number times infinite is still infinite. 266 00:11:06,485 --> 00:11:08,255 - This is all fascinating. This 267 00:11:08,255 --> 00:11:09,255 - Is, it's interesting stuff. 268 00:11:09,285 --> 00:11:12,015 It's a, it's combining both intuition and quantum physics. 269 00:11:12,155 --> 00:11:15,735 And, uh, when I was actually 39, I didn't know the mechanism 270 00:11:15,735 --> 00:11:17,015 of my abilities to be able to 271 00:11:17,555 --> 00:11:19,655 see people's futures seize people's past lives 272 00:11:19,755 --> 00:11:21,735 and help them with their life mission through intuition. 273 00:11:21,815 --> 00:11:23,295 I didn't know what the mechanism was 274 00:11:23,425 --> 00:11:26,175 until I started studying string theory at the age of 39. 275 00:11:26,355 --> 00:11:27,695 And when I did that, I said, oh my 276 00:11:27,715 --> 00:11:29,135 God, that's the mechanism. 277 00:11:29,675 --> 00:11:31,095 It was, it's, it's very interesting. 278 00:11:31,645 --> 00:11:36,085 - It's, that's so cool. And it's the same like with you. 279 00:11:36,185 --> 00:11:39,045 You found your purpose and you found your skillset, 280 00:11:39,585 --> 00:11:42,485 and you used all of your intuition, 281 00:11:42,905 --> 00:11:46,525 and I guess you have some amazing abilities 282 00:11:47,265 --> 00:11:48,765 to create a career out of. 283 00:11:48,765 --> 00:11:49,885 It is beautiful. 284 00:11:50,465 --> 00:11:52,365 - It was interesting. I spent, um, uh, 285 00:11:52,365 --> 00:11:55,405 25 years lecturing on the subject of functional medicine 286 00:11:55,425 --> 00:11:57,045 for a company by the name of Metagenics. 287 00:11:57,225 --> 00:11:59,885 Mm-Hmm. . And even in going to doctor's offices, 288 00:12:00,285 --> 00:12:02,045 I would use my abilities in this way. 289 00:12:02,275 --> 00:12:05,765 Many times I would ask a doctor to not, uh, uh, usurp 290 00:12:05,765 --> 00:12:08,765 or to have problems with HIPAA law to take a file, any file, 291 00:12:08,765 --> 00:12:11,325 put it face down so I couldn't see the name of it. 292 00:12:11,785 --> 00:12:14,805 Mm-Hmm. . And then I would tell, um, him where him 293 00:12:14,805 --> 00:12:18,565 or her, where the imbalances were, um, where the like, uh, 294 00:12:18,565 --> 00:12:20,525 likelihood of basic lab tests are 295 00:12:20,825 --> 00:12:24,005 and what some of the remedies that can be used, um, just 296 00:12:24,005 --> 00:12:26,165 by looking at the folder without looking inside. 297 00:12:26,825 --> 00:12:29,245 Um, and my hit rate was very, very high. 298 00:12:29,685 --> 00:12:30,885 I became well known for that 299 00:12:30,885 --> 00:12:32,485 and a lot of doctors asked me to do that. 300 00:12:33,415 --> 00:12:35,635 - Wow. Some special abilities that you 301 00:12:35,635 --> 00:12:36,635 have. - . 302 00:12:36,635 --> 00:12:37,275 Yeah. Everybody's good at 303 00:12:37,275 --> 00:12:38,515 something. I'm good at those things. 304 00:12:39,305 --> 00:12:41,845 - You hear this word empath? - Yeah. Yeah. 305 00:12:42,105 --> 00:12:43,885 - So are you an empath 306 00:12:44,145 --> 00:12:46,925 and can you explain what an empath is? Mm-Hmm. . 307 00:12:47,515 --> 00:12:49,285 - Well, you know, when you look at the word, uh, 308 00:12:49,285 --> 00:12:52,205 in the general population as empathy, okay? 309 00:12:52,625 --> 00:12:57,395 Yes. But, um, being an empath, I, I mean, um, I interviewed, 310 00:12:57,775 --> 00:12:58,995 oh, what is her name? 311 00:12:59,255 --> 00:13:02,395 She wrote the, um, uh, the, uh, empath survival guide. 312 00:13:02,395 --> 00:13:03,395 I'll remember her name in a moment. 313 00:13:03,775 --> 00:13:07,395 Um, but, uh, I interviewed her on my radio show on KABC. 314 00:13:07,655 --> 00:13:11,555 Mm-Hmm, . Um, and most people look at high empaths, 315 00:13:11,555 --> 00:13:16,115 which I am, um, as an unfortunate curse, 316 00:13:16,415 --> 00:13:18,915 one might say, because when they're around lots 317 00:13:18,915 --> 00:13:21,395 of other people, they feel the yuckiness of other people. 318 00:13:21,785 --> 00:13:23,315 They are empathetic, 319 00:13:23,375 --> 00:13:25,315 but they are an empath, which means 320 00:13:25,895 --> 00:13:27,955 the information comes from others and goes to them. 321 00:13:28,735 --> 00:13:30,755 One of the interesting aspects of this though, 322 00:13:30,755 --> 00:13:31,835 is it is a practice 323 00:13:31,835 --> 00:13:34,435 that I teach my clients about empathy uhhuh, 324 00:13:34,435 --> 00:13:36,915 which takes the weight of empathy off of them 325 00:13:37,615 --> 00:13:38,915 and invigorates them. 326 00:13:39,695 --> 00:13:41,475 So this is called Divine Witness. 327 00:13:42,335 --> 00:13:43,995 So should I share this with your audience 328 00:13:44,495 --> 00:13:45,315 - Please? Yes. 329 00:13:45,315 --> 00:13:47,035 - There we go. For all you empaths out there, 330 00:13:47,055 --> 00:13:49,875 for all you people who found yourself in a group of people 331 00:13:50,015 --> 00:13:53,675 or, uh, just seeming to attach energy vampires to you, 332 00:13:53,865 --> 00:13:56,875 okay, , and they're out there. 333 00:13:57,415 --> 00:13:59,155 Um, what, instead 334 00:13:59,175 --> 00:14:01,915 of the information coming from another person to, you think 335 00:14:01,915 --> 00:14:04,235 of it as a highway where cars are coming 336 00:14:04,235 --> 00:14:05,955 to you delivering mis messages to you, 337 00:14:06,175 --> 00:14:08,115 and you take all comers, okay? 338 00:14:08,115 --> 00:14:10,595 Because an empath deep down in their soul, 339 00:14:10,665 --> 00:14:11,795 they just wanna help. 340 00:14:12,215 --> 00:14:13,395 So they're willing to like, 341 00:14:13,545 --> 00:14:15,395 literally fall on the knife to help. 342 00:14:15,975 --> 00:14:18,035 So the information comes to the, and they take it on. 343 00:14:18,325 --> 00:14:20,835 Their conscious mind is not so much like that. 344 00:14:20,855 --> 00:14:22,595 The subconscious mind is where it happens. 345 00:14:22,695 --> 00:14:23,795 So you receive this 346 00:14:23,795 --> 00:14:25,315 and it's literally like you're a sponge 347 00:14:25,315 --> 00:14:26,475 picking dirt off the floor. 348 00:14:27,175 --> 00:14:30,195 Now let's take that, that road of information, that highway 349 00:14:30,575 --> 00:14:32,395 of information that's going from another person 350 00:14:32,455 --> 00:14:33,475 to you, okay? 351 00:14:33,735 --> 00:14:34,795 And let's reverse it. 352 00:14:34,795 --> 00:14:37,395 But let's get fed by something that is so divine 353 00:14:37,395 --> 00:14:38,555 and filled with love. 354 00:14:39,315 --> 00:14:42,595 I tell my clients, what I'd like you to do is I'd like you 355 00:14:42,595 --> 00:14:44,595 to figure out, out of these four environments, 356 00:14:44,695 --> 00:14:47,755 I'm gonna tell you, I'd like you to tell me which one 357 00:14:47,755 --> 00:14:50,995 of these environments inspires you, makes you feel at home, 358 00:14:51,405 --> 00:14:54,115 makes you feel love, and makes you feel warm. 359 00:14:54,455 --> 00:14:56,035 And I give them four different environments. 360 00:14:56,375 --> 00:14:59,115 The first environment is a beautiful magical forest. 361 00:14:59,185 --> 00:15:01,915 Like even the one you would see in like Lord of the Rings, 362 00:15:01,915 --> 00:15:03,115 or you would see in Harry Potter. 363 00:15:03,535 --> 00:15:05,675 And it's beautiful and green in there. 364 00:15:05,675 --> 00:15:08,035 It's almost like a magical forest that you would see out 365 00:15:08,035 --> 00:15:10,275 of the days of, of, you know, uh, 366 00:15:10,295 --> 00:15:12,035 the round table and so on and so forth. 367 00:15:12,255 --> 00:15:14,395 Mm-Hmm. , that's the first one. 368 00:15:14,695 --> 00:15:17,195 The second one is a beautiful desert. 369 00:15:17,935 --> 00:15:19,035 It just goes on forever 370 00:15:19,985 --> 00:15:22,365 and it's just a cool breeze coming off the desert. 371 00:15:22,745 --> 00:15:24,485 And it's all sorts of beautiful cactuses 372 00:15:24,485 --> 00:15:25,485 with flowers in there. 373 00:15:26,385 --> 00:15:29,205 The third one is looking up at a mountain, 374 00:15:29,525 --> 00:15:31,205 a beautiful snow top mountain, 375 00:15:31,205 --> 00:15:32,925 let's say a 5,000 foot tall mountain 376 00:15:33,385 --> 00:15:35,965 and just looking at this massive strong mountain. 377 00:15:36,795 --> 00:15:38,135 And the last one is the ocean 378 00:15:38,685 --> 00:15:41,895 with beautiful aquamarine waves coming over a beach 379 00:15:41,895 --> 00:15:44,935 of perfect white sand, just feeling all 380 00:15:44,955 --> 00:15:46,415 of the life within the ocean. 381 00:15:47,275 --> 00:15:49,935 So when you pick the one, what, which would be yours, Liz, 382 00:15:50,065 --> 00:15:54,055 where you feel powerful and strong and heard and, and, and, 383 00:15:54,235 --> 00:15:56,895 and, and loved, which would be the number one, 384 00:15:57,985 --> 00:15:58,985 - I would say the mountains. 385 00:15:59,325 --> 00:16:00,465 - The mountains. There we go. 386 00:16:00,725 --> 00:16:02,265 You know, it's an interesting point about the mountains, 387 00:16:02,265 --> 00:16:04,185 just to get off the point for a quarter second here. 388 00:16:04,855 --> 00:16:07,585 Individuals who are very spiritual would go to the top 389 00:16:07,585 --> 00:16:09,625 of the mountain to experience it. 390 00:16:09,935 --> 00:16:12,225 Okay? So that is the power move on your part. 391 00:16:12,585 --> 00:16:14,425 I would expect nothing less from the gutsy babe . 392 00:16:15,045 --> 00:16:18,185 Um, so with that in mind, you should imagine 393 00:16:18,245 --> 00:16:21,545 behind you a beautiful snow cap, majestic mountain. 394 00:16:21,925 --> 00:16:23,545 Mm-Hmm. Alright. And then 395 00:16:23,545 --> 00:16:26,465 with every breath you think you take, think that, 396 00:16:26,465 --> 00:16:28,225 think it's maybe like a hundred yards behind you 397 00:16:28,495 --> 00:16:31,065 with every breath the mountain is sending you its energy, 398 00:16:31,785 --> 00:16:33,345 A beautiful energy. 399 00:16:33,505 --> 00:16:35,985 A beautiful blue energy is coming from the mountain, 400 00:16:36,365 --> 00:16:38,545 and it's being sent right into your heart through your back, 401 00:16:38,855 --> 00:16:40,345 with every breath you take, it fills 402 00:16:40,345 --> 00:16:41,425 up more and more in your heart. 403 00:16:41,655 --> 00:16:44,305 That feeling of strength, that feeling of power, 404 00:16:44,615 --> 00:16:45,705 filling up your heart 405 00:16:45,885 --> 00:16:48,545 and with another breath, it fills it up totally your heart. 406 00:16:48,885 --> 00:16:50,545 Now it's got no place to go except 407 00:16:50,545 --> 00:16:52,225 for rise up your throat again. 408 00:16:52,415 --> 00:16:54,105 It's being fed by the mountain behind you, 409 00:16:54,365 --> 00:16:56,985 rising up your throat into your head. 410 00:16:57,615 --> 00:16:59,425 Feel that light blue energy in your head. 411 00:16:59,685 --> 00:17:02,985 And as you open up your eyes, imagine looking into 412 00:17:02,985 --> 00:17:06,545 that other person's eyes, sending those bluebeams of light, 413 00:17:06,885 --> 00:17:09,545 of strength, of power, of confidence into them, 414 00:17:10,015 --> 00:17:12,785 into their mind, down their throat, and into their heart. 415 00:17:12,805 --> 00:17:15,145 And when it reaches their heart, I want you 416 00:17:15,145 --> 00:17:18,105 to imagine a beautiful fireplace being lit in the heart 417 00:17:18,565 --> 00:17:21,345 and that beautiful fireplace, as you easily light it 418 00:17:21,345 --> 00:17:24,105 through the flames in the fireplace, you can see 419 00:17:24,135 --> 00:17:27,345 that other person living their life purpose with joy, 420 00:17:27,465 --> 00:17:28,985 invigoration bliss. 421 00:17:29,885 --> 00:17:32,145 So you're being fed by the mountain behind you, 422 00:17:32,205 --> 00:17:33,825 it fills you up with that love. 423 00:17:34,445 --> 00:17:35,865 And as you give it to the other person, 424 00:17:35,965 --> 00:17:37,225 it makes them feel seen. 425 00:17:37,485 --> 00:17:40,665 You are no longer a dirty sponge, okay? 426 00:17:41,365 --> 00:17:43,985 You are a giver of light and purpose. 427 00:17:45,005 --> 00:17:48,065 So that's how I, I help with empaths. 428 00:17:48,605 --> 00:17:50,125 Um, and, um, uh, 429 00:17:50,125 --> 00:17:53,085 Judith Orloff was the actual medical doctor, 430 00:17:53,185 --> 00:17:54,205 was wrote that book. 431 00:17:54,285 --> 00:17:55,325 I highly recommend it. 432 00:17:55,675 --> 00:17:58,645 It's called, um, uh, empath Survival Guide. 433 00:17:59,185 --> 00:18:00,765 So that's, that's a great piece. 434 00:18:00,985 --> 00:18:03,325 But I would also do the, uh, divine Witness. 435 00:18:03,465 --> 00:18:06,285 And if anybody wants to be able to, uh, book a section 436 00:18:06,285 --> 00:18:07,885 with me, I actually bring you 437 00:18:07,885 --> 00:18:09,005 through the process more personally. 438 00:18:10,005 --> 00:18:12,265 - Wow. I felt that that was beautiful. Thank 439 00:18:12,265 --> 00:18:13,265 - You. Isn't that fun stuff? 440 00:18:13,895 --> 00:18:17,825 - It's, and I've been told that I'm an empath. 441 00:18:18,045 --> 00:18:19,385 - Oh, you definitely are. Empath. 442 00:18:19,505 --> 00:18:20,865 I, I I've known it forward and backwards. 443 00:18:20,865 --> 00:18:21,865 The moment, the moment I met you 444 00:18:24,865 --> 00:18:27,625 - Recently, someone said, uh, is it a hiku 445 00:18:27,805 --> 00:18:30,825 or I can't recall, it's a, 446 00:18:31,645 --> 00:18:33,365 a tribal name. 447 00:18:33,395 --> 00:18:35,085 Someone mentioned, oh, how 448 00:18:35,245 --> 00:18:36,245 - Interesting. 449 00:18:36,245 --> 00:18:37,365 - And it was like one 450 00:18:37,365 --> 00:18:39,485 of the higher levels, the highest level. 451 00:18:39,485 --> 00:18:42,525 Mm-Hmm. - . Mm-Hmm. . Also another thing, another site 452 00:18:42,525 --> 00:18:44,725 of an em, a true empath is mm-Hmm. 453 00:18:44,955 --> 00:18:48,675 that is not just playing with their empathy, 454 00:18:48,675 --> 00:18:51,755 but ready to take it on is the sweetness of the individual. 455 00:18:51,935 --> 00:18:53,995 And you, like you had mentioned, um, to me 456 00:18:53,995 --> 00:18:56,395 before many times, you know, people used to come up with me 457 00:18:56,395 --> 00:18:58,035 and come up to me from, you know, my, 458 00:18:58,035 --> 00:18:59,195 uh, high school reunions. 459 00:18:59,215 --> 00:19:02,115 And the one thing I always re remembered was how sweet I was 460 00:19:02,115 --> 00:19:04,715 with them, how kind I was with them. 461 00:19:05,175 --> 00:19:07,715 That's also another sign of an individual who's ready 462 00:19:07,715 --> 00:19:09,075 to be able to do that type of work. 463 00:19:09,515 --> 00:19:11,755 Remember, when it comes to being an empath, 464 00:19:12,875 --> 00:19:14,975 you don't just have to take other people's crap. 465 00:19:15,715 --> 00:19:17,135 You can also change it around 466 00:19:17,915 --> 00:19:19,575 and move energy any way you want to. 467 00:19:20,155 --> 00:19:21,815 And in this way it's much more productive. 468 00:19:22,395 --> 00:19:24,935 And for an individual who's been an empath their entire 469 00:19:24,935 --> 00:19:26,015 life mm-hmm. 470 00:19:26,285 --> 00:19:28,335 Many times it can feel like a weight off their back. 471 00:19:28,765 --> 00:19:30,095 Because now instead 472 00:19:30,095 --> 00:19:32,895 of taking on other people's issues, mm-hmm. 473 00:19:33,155 --> 00:19:36,415 Now you are seeing them, you're empowering them. 474 00:19:36,795 --> 00:19:38,415 And through the simple energetics of them, 475 00:19:38,515 --> 00:19:39,615 you're inspiring them. 476 00:19:40,625 --> 00:19:42,275 - It's beautiful. I think you're right 477 00:19:42,275 --> 00:19:44,195 because I do hear that a lot from people 478 00:19:44,195 --> 00:19:45,275 that I've inspired them. 479 00:19:45,585 --> 00:19:47,715 - Yeah. Yeah. - That brings me joy. 480 00:19:48,685 --> 00:19:50,115 - There we go. And we want you 481 00:19:50,115 --> 00:19:51,955 to have joy, not just be gutsy. 482 00:19:53,135 --> 00:19:54,275 We want, babe, 483 00:19:57,525 --> 00:20:00,355 - Thank you for that, Adam, working with you. 484 00:20:00,415 --> 00:20:02,275 How can people better understand their 485 00:20:02,275 --> 00:20:03,795 lives, their life purpose? 486 00:20:04,215 --> 00:20:06,235 - Ah, there we go. So, you know, the thing is, 487 00:20:06,265 --> 00:20:08,035 life purpose is just one part of it. 488 00:20:09,195 --> 00:20:10,675 I could stand there and I could go to you. 489 00:20:11,055 --> 00:20:14,995 You should be, um, uh, the owner of a chain of restaurants. 490 00:20:15,385 --> 00:20:16,595 Okay? Mm-Hmm. . 491 00:20:16,935 --> 00:20:18,915 But, and you'll stand there going, well, that's great. 492 00:20:18,935 --> 00:20:22,475 How do I get there? So it's a twofold situation. 493 00:20:23,485 --> 00:20:27,145 The first part is seeing what utilizes all of your gifts, 494 00:20:27,145 --> 00:20:30,025 whether they be, you know, divine, uh, uh, tool bag gifts, 495 00:20:30,165 --> 00:20:32,105 all the way to the other things you've done in your life. 496 00:20:32,565 --> 00:20:33,625 And then the second part 497 00:20:33,625 --> 00:20:36,825 of it is taking a look at other parallel timelines 498 00:20:36,825 --> 00:20:39,785 for the person that they're in, where they do understand 499 00:20:39,785 --> 00:20:42,305 that this is their mission and how they got from 500 00:20:42,305 --> 00:20:44,505 where you are in this lifetime right now 501 00:20:44,645 --> 00:20:45,785 to where they ended up. 502 00:20:46,245 --> 00:20:47,845 So I can look for best practices 503 00:20:47,845 --> 00:20:50,605 and ways to be able to look, look forward in regards 504 00:20:50,625 --> 00:20:53,525 to looking at your parallel timelines and parallel universes 505 00:20:53,905 --> 00:20:55,885 and utilizing the infinite parallel 506 00:20:56,125 --> 00:20:57,365 timeline system that you are in. 507 00:20:57,465 --> 00:20:59,365 Mm-Hmm. , almost like a person would utilize a 508 00:20:59,365 --> 00:21:00,525 Google search with the internet. 509 00:21:01,255 --> 00:21:04,175 I look up parallel timelines where this is the, the mission. 510 00:21:04,715 --> 00:21:07,455 Can you show me how they got there? 511 00:21:08,395 --> 00:21:10,495 And I almost literally put it into a computer 512 00:21:10,515 --> 00:21:13,975 inside my mind, and it pulls out the parallel timelines in 513 00:21:13,975 --> 00:21:15,695 which that is best represented. 514 00:21:16,605 --> 00:21:19,025 And I just basically tell people how you do it. 515 00:21:19,025 --> 00:21:21,105 Many people will say to me something which is sort of funny, 516 00:21:21,455 --> 00:21:22,785 they'll say, wow, 517 00:21:22,785 --> 00:21:24,625 that sounds like something that I would do. 518 00:21:24,695 --> 00:21:25,945 Like the recommendation I give. 519 00:21:26,385 --> 00:21:28,705 I said, yeah, it is, it's just another timeline you're in. 520 00:21:29,055 --> 00:21:30,105 It's sort of funny that way. 521 00:21:30,205 --> 00:21:33,185 So that, that is, is the two-pronged situation. 522 00:21:33,185 --> 00:21:36,425 The first prong is to be able to literally take 523 00:21:37,085 --> 00:21:40,225 and to be able to figure out what, using the algorithm 524 00:21:40,645 --> 00:21:44,465 and using my intuitive abilities, what your purpose is. 525 00:21:44,565 --> 00:21:46,905 But purpose without path towards the purpose 526 00:21:47,645 --> 00:21:48,745 can oftentimes be hollow. 527 00:21:48,845 --> 00:21:50,425 So I help with the path towards the purpose, 528 00:21:50,925 --> 00:21:53,545 and also I have a great deal of background in regards 529 00:21:53,545 --> 00:21:56,225 to individuals promoting themselves, um, writing books, 530 00:21:56,385 --> 00:21:59,105 podcasts, whatever it takes to be able to get a person down 531 00:21:59,105 --> 00:22:01,465 that path quicker, more efficiently, 532 00:22:01,965 --> 00:22:03,825 and to affect the world in a greater fashion. 533 00:22:04,985 --> 00:22:07,525 - That's beautiful. Yeah. - Fun stuff. 534 00:22:08,075 --> 00:22:10,125 - It's, it's so 535 00:22:10,125 --> 00:22:11,845 after a person learns their true life 536 00:22:11,845 --> 00:22:13,805 purpose, what do they do then? 537 00:22:14,035 --> 00:22:16,805 Yeah. And how can they integrate this into their life 538 00:22:16,905 --> 00:22:18,685 and begin living the life of their dreams? 539 00:22:19,075 --> 00:22:22,405 - Okay, so this is real important here. Yeah. 540 00:22:22,425 --> 00:22:24,245 And it's a real important to remember this one. 541 00:22:24,975 --> 00:22:28,485 Everything that keeps you from your life purpose is located 542 00:22:28,795 --> 00:22:31,045 between your left ear and your right ear. 543 00:22:31,315 --> 00:22:33,885 It's all inside your mind. Yeah. 544 00:22:34,035 --> 00:22:38,875 Your beliefs keep you from attending to it 545 00:22:38,875 --> 00:22:40,955 because your beliefs will keep you doing things 546 00:22:40,955 --> 00:22:43,595 that you've done in the past, not new things. 547 00:22:44,105 --> 00:22:45,835 It's based upon all the different habits 548 00:22:46,215 --> 00:22:48,355 and all the different programming that's inside of you. 549 00:22:48,775 --> 00:22:49,835 We want you to be able 550 00:22:49,835 --> 00:22:51,395 to move in a different direction here. 551 00:22:52,055 --> 00:22:55,235 So what you're really trying to do is you're trying to be 552 00:22:55,295 --> 00:22:57,435 as clean and as specific 553 00:22:57,735 --> 00:23:00,435 and as transparent a version of yourself as possible. 554 00:23:00,685 --> 00:23:02,715 There are two things that stand in your way, 555 00:23:02,735 --> 00:23:05,035 and I, I do hypnosis work with, uh, 556 00:23:05,035 --> 00:23:06,435 my clients to be able to get rid of those. 557 00:23:06,735 --> 00:23:08,155 And I give them homework as well. 558 00:23:08,775 --> 00:23:11,355 The first thing that stands in your way from being 559 00:23:11,635 --> 00:23:13,315 yourself is adaptation. 560 00:23:14,015 --> 00:23:17,475 You know, we all try to get along, we do. 561 00:23:17,695 --> 00:23:18,835 So we're willing to adapt, 562 00:23:18,895 --> 00:23:20,715 but many times we're willing to adapt to something 563 00:23:20,715 --> 00:23:25,355 that is not truly our strong points, our divine toolkit. 564 00:23:25,865 --> 00:23:27,195 It's truly not who we are. 565 00:23:27,855 --> 00:23:28,875 We adapt many times 566 00:23:29,095 --> 00:23:30,795 to the mediocrity of the world around us. 567 00:23:31,575 --> 00:23:36,115 So understanding where your thoughts and beliefs come from. 568 00:23:36,115 --> 00:23:38,075 An example of being able to do that is 569 00:23:38,075 --> 00:23:40,675 to write down on a sheet what you want out of life, 570 00:23:41,055 --> 00:23:42,555 and then pull off of that sheet. 571 00:23:42,985 --> 00:23:47,195 What items did not come from your own teaching. Okay. 572 00:23:47,225 --> 00:23:50,195 Your own wisdom. It's just like, I want to be a, 573 00:23:50,715 --> 00:23:51,875 a very powerful lawyer. 574 00:23:52,385 --> 00:23:57,235 Okay, great. Who first told you that? My mom. . Okay. 575 00:23:57,465 --> 00:23:59,075 What did you want to be before your mom told you that? 576 00:23:59,535 --> 00:24:01,635 Oh, I wanted to be a psychologist. Really? 577 00:24:01,985 --> 00:24:04,515 Okay, so let's look at that. 578 00:24:04,735 --> 00:24:06,835 So the bottom line is putting down a list 579 00:24:06,855 --> 00:24:08,555 and then picking out of that list of the things 580 00:24:08,555 --> 00:24:10,555 that you want out of your life, the achievements you want, 581 00:24:11,205 --> 00:24:13,355 which ones of those came directly from you, 582 00:24:13,415 --> 00:24:15,075 or which ones were influenced by others. 583 00:24:15,625 --> 00:24:17,035 Okay? They're influenced by others. 584 00:24:17,335 --> 00:24:20,155 You are adapting you the needs of other people 585 00:24:20,375 --> 00:24:21,515 as it relates to your life. 586 00:24:22,135 --> 00:24:24,675 The second thing besides adaptation is reaction. 587 00:24:24,935 --> 00:24:27,435 Oh my God, have you ever seen like two really, 588 00:24:27,435 --> 00:24:30,075 really smart people get into a personal argument 589 00:24:30,075 --> 00:24:32,755 with each other, and it looks like their IQ is like taking a 590 00:24:32,755 --> 00:24:34,915 dive as they go further on with it. 591 00:24:34,985 --> 00:24:37,155 It's like, dude, I know you're smart. 592 00:24:37,375 --> 00:24:39,595 Why did you say that to that person about, you know, 593 00:24:40,125 --> 00:24:41,875 about their looks or something silly? 594 00:24:42,255 --> 00:24:46,515 You know what I mean? . So when it comes to reaction, 595 00:24:47,335 --> 00:24:50,235 really, you know, there, there's one thing I learned, 596 00:24:50,255 --> 00:24:53,635 and this is a, uh, an adaptation of a, a Buddhist piece 597 00:24:53,635 --> 00:24:58,235 of wisdom, which is that when you feel like reacting 598 00:24:59,185 --> 00:25:00,605 to something in the world around you, 599 00:25:00,605 --> 00:25:03,405 let's say it makes making a statement, okay, 600 00:25:05,125 --> 00:25:09,895 that is most usually not the most effective way 601 00:25:09,955 --> 00:25:11,375 to make change in the world. 602 00:25:12,705 --> 00:25:15,045 And it will end up many times. 603 00:25:15,515 --> 00:25:16,565 Instead of you taking 604 00:25:16,585 --> 00:25:18,925 and making a statement out to the world, you'll suppress it, 605 00:25:18,925 --> 00:25:21,085 keep it inside you, and it forms a problem. 606 00:25:21,085 --> 00:25:22,525 Like, I'm not expressing myself. 607 00:25:24,025 --> 00:25:25,315 When it comes down to it 608 00:25:25,685 --> 00:25:28,035 where you feel like you wanna make a statement 609 00:25:28,415 --> 00:25:31,195 to a reaction, replace it with a question. 610 00:25:32,245 --> 00:25:35,215 Once you start asking questions about why a person acts a 611 00:25:35,215 --> 00:25:38,655 certain way, so on and so forth, then guess what happens? 612 00:25:39,525 --> 00:25:42,225 The statements, the need to be able to take 613 00:25:42,685 --> 00:25:44,825 and react becomes much less. 614 00:25:45,415 --> 00:25:47,425 Fill your life with questions where there used 615 00:25:47,425 --> 00:25:51,505 to be statements, and you will find a life free of hunting 616 00:25:51,645 --> 00:25:56,225 for injustice of life free, of sticking your nose into areas 617 00:25:56,335 --> 00:25:57,825 that it's not going to help you. 618 00:25:58,575 --> 00:26:00,155 Really asking questions helps 619 00:26:00,625 --> 00:26:03,595 with reducing reactivity also, peace. 620 00:26:04,285 --> 00:26:06,595 Peace, man. Oh, do you know, 621 00:26:06,595 --> 00:26:07,635 do you know what the funny thing is? 622 00:26:08,685 --> 00:26:10,275 There are a lot of people out there willing 623 00:26:10,275 --> 00:26:11,515 to sell their soul for peace. 624 00:26:11,735 --> 00:26:15,275 And, uh, you know, it never ends that well. Okay? 625 00:26:15,655 --> 00:26:17,915 And you might wanna ask just the people listening right now, 626 00:26:18,615 --> 00:26:22,995 do I, am I willing to take a hit just for peace? 627 00:26:23,785 --> 00:26:26,075 That may not be something you wanna do. 628 00:26:26,455 --> 00:26:28,635 It may be something like you're standing there going, 629 00:26:28,855 --> 00:26:30,675 you know, something, I'd rather not argue right now. 630 00:26:30,695 --> 00:26:33,985 I'm just gonna give in. Don't give in. Mm-Hmm. 631 00:26:34,095 --> 00:26:36,305 It's important that you express what your needs are 632 00:26:36,305 --> 00:26:37,825 to the world, especially to the people 633 00:26:37,825 --> 00:26:39,545 that you love and that love you. 634 00:26:40,615 --> 00:26:43,035 So I, I do a lot of couples counseling as well. 635 00:26:43,110 --> 00:26:45,565 Well, mm-Hmm, . And the bottom line is there's too many 636 00:26:45,565 --> 00:26:47,885 people who just don't wanna argue and wanna put it off, 637 00:26:48,185 --> 00:26:49,925 but they're putting it off to the point in which they 638 00:26:49,925 --> 00:26:51,845 explode and have passive aggressive activities. 639 00:26:52,625 --> 00:26:55,965 So when it comes to peace, it's a beautiful thing, 640 00:26:56,585 --> 00:26:58,245 but don't give up too much for it. 641 00:26:58,905 --> 00:27:01,375 - So it does, it starts with the mind. Mm-Hmm. 642 00:27:01,475 --> 00:27:03,615 And self love. I think that's crucial. 643 00:27:04,165 --> 00:27:06,095 - Yeah. And the self-love 644 00:27:06,605 --> 00:27:09,255 also includes self value. 645 00:27:09,555 --> 00:27:11,215 How much you worth? Mm-Hmm. . 646 00:27:11,675 --> 00:27:13,255 If you self value yourself 647 00:27:13,995 --> 00:27:17,735 and you stand there with a positive attitude, looking at 648 00:27:17,805 --> 00:27:19,455 what you want in the world, not 649 00:27:19,455 --> 00:27:21,895 what other people told you you want Mm-Hmm, , 650 00:27:21,975 --> 00:27:23,255 then you'll probably do pretty well. 651 00:27:24,305 --> 00:27:25,885 - That's beautiful. - Yeah. 652 00:27:26,995 --> 00:27:29,205 - It's like Michael Jackson's song. Yeah. 653 00:27:29,225 --> 00:27:30,725 All start with Man in the Mirror. . 654 00:27:31,995 --> 00:27:33,645 - Totally. It's interesting. 655 00:27:33,645 --> 00:27:35,165 Michael Jackson also brings up another point, 656 00:27:35,335 --> 00:27:37,725 which is a meme that I put out there in social media 657 00:27:37,865 --> 00:27:39,365 to my, my followers. 658 00:27:39,905 --> 00:27:43,285 And, um, it basically says, Hey, when you can't fit in, 659 00:27:43,295 --> 00:27:44,645 maybe it's time to lead. 660 00:27:46,035 --> 00:27:47,895 - Yes. I love that. - You know, 661 00:27:48,155 --> 00:27:50,335 and Michael Jackson was a perfect example of that. 662 00:27:50,815 --> 00:27:52,295 I mean, literally, if we were 663 00:27:52,295 --> 00:27:54,375 to take a look at his personal life, even if there was no, 664 00:27:54,795 --> 00:27:56,815 you know, hanky pany stuff, like a lot 665 00:27:56,815 --> 00:27:58,055 of people think, right? 666 00:27:58,835 --> 00:28:00,335 He was outta the ordinary. 667 00:28:01,155 --> 00:28:02,935 - Yes, he was. He he - Really didn't fit in. 668 00:28:02,955 --> 00:28:06,975 Not too many people have a farm, which includes zebras 669 00:28:06,995 --> 00:28:09,575 and rides in their backyard, okay? 670 00:28:11,075 --> 00:28:12,495 And, and like hanging out with children. 671 00:28:12,675 --> 00:28:15,895 Uh, for whatever reason it was with him, he was different 672 00:28:17,335 --> 00:28:20,235 and he led, he was a leader in his field. 673 00:28:20,975 --> 00:28:23,635 So I ask all the people out there, you know, 674 00:28:23,635 --> 00:28:25,435 if you don't feel like you fit in, 675 00:28:25,455 --> 00:28:26,835 it doesn't mean you don't have purpose. 676 00:28:27,065 --> 00:28:28,715 Sometimes we mix those up. 677 00:28:29,475 --> 00:28:33,025 Maybe it's just time for you to lead in the area 678 00:28:33,835 --> 00:28:35,085 that your divine toolkit 679 00:28:35,225 --> 00:28:37,125 and all the actions your life led you down 680 00:28:37,125 --> 00:28:38,765 that path to your life purpose. 681 00:28:39,685 --> 00:28:43,665 - Yes. I love that. I hope everyone listening really takes 682 00:28:43,665 --> 00:28:46,305 that to heart and goes out and leads, 683 00:28:47,115 --> 00:28:48,425 - Leads, baby leads. 684 00:28:48,455 --> 00:28:50,425 Because you, you know, the interesting point is 685 00:28:50,965 --> 00:28:53,305 you are more powerful as yourself. 686 00:28:53,855 --> 00:28:55,905 They, they talk about actors as like, oh, 687 00:28:55,905 --> 00:28:56,945 that actor did a great job. 688 00:28:56,945 --> 00:28:58,345 And then you find out later on that 689 00:28:58,345 --> 00:29:00,025 that's the actor was just being themselves. 690 00:29:00,815 --> 00:29:01,825 Okay? Right. 691 00:29:01,825 --> 00:29:04,425 Nothing's more powerful than you in your purest form. 692 00:29:04,965 --> 00:29:06,705 That's why you were brought down here. 693 00:29:07,065 --> 00:29:08,145 I think everybody has a purpose. 694 00:29:08,645 --> 00:29:09,665 I'm an extreme believer in 695 00:29:09,665 --> 00:29:12,105 that it's panned out many times in my life 696 00:29:12,105 --> 00:29:13,625 where I've been proven right on that one. 697 00:29:14,285 --> 00:29:18,745 But you have to be able to give your unique contribution. 698 00:29:19,695 --> 00:29:21,775 A unique contribution isn't fitting in 699 00:29:22,535 --> 00:29:25,135 a unique contribution certainly isn't, uh, reacting 700 00:29:25,135 --> 00:29:27,335 because you're not acting about who you truly are. 701 00:29:27,335 --> 00:29:29,655 You're just reacting from somebody else. Okay? 702 00:29:30,245 --> 00:29:33,855 Your unique contribution is understanding what I'm good at, 703 00:29:34,325 --> 00:29:37,495 what I like to do, what charges me up, what am I proud of. 704 00:29:38,115 --> 00:29:41,885 All of these different things are the way I want everybody 705 00:29:41,905 --> 00:29:44,525 out there to live their lives in the moment, 706 00:29:45,145 --> 00:29:46,765 in presence in love. 707 00:29:47,425 --> 00:29:50,045 And speaking about being present as well. 708 00:29:50,785 --> 00:29:53,205 You know, that according to psychologists, 709 00:29:53,205 --> 00:29:54,805 depending upon the which ones you look at in the studies 710 00:29:55,185 --> 00:29:57,005 around 90% of the time, 711 00:29:57,025 --> 00:29:58,645 the average human being is not present. 712 00:29:59,555 --> 00:30:01,525 They're either worrying about the future, 713 00:30:01,955 --> 00:30:03,605 like the boogeyman, you know what I mean? 714 00:30:03,635 --> 00:30:04,965 Someone knocking at the door 715 00:30:05,425 --> 00:30:06,925 or they're feeling bad about the past. 716 00:30:07,585 --> 00:30:10,205 So 90% of the time they're doing that, they only have 10% 717 00:30:10,205 --> 00:30:11,885 of their time here in the present. 718 00:30:13,075 --> 00:30:14,295 So let's just take a look at life, 719 00:30:14,295 --> 00:30:15,975 pur life purpose from that perspective. 720 00:30:17,035 --> 00:30:21,685 If you only have eight out of 80 years here, 721 00:30:22,615 --> 00:30:24,035 how hard is it gonna be to be able 722 00:30:24,035 --> 00:30:25,995 to fulfill your life purpose in this lifetime? 723 00:30:26,855 --> 00:30:30,115 I'd say it'd be pretty hard. So presence is an important 724 00:30:30,115 --> 00:30:32,155 thing that I teach people in my first book, 725 00:30:32,155 --> 00:30:34,715 seeing the angel in the mirror available on Amazon for 11. 726 00:30:34,715 --> 00:30:37,675 11, okay. Mm-Hmm. . Shameless plug. I know. 727 00:30:38,135 --> 00:30:40,355 Um, great number. There we go. 728 00:30:40,675 --> 00:30:41,875 seeing the angel in the mirror. 729 00:30:42,255 --> 00:30:44,875 So in the book, I actually helped people 730 00:30:45,105 --> 00:30:47,595 with an algorithmic approach to be able 731 00:30:47,595 --> 00:30:49,515 to become much more present. 732 00:30:49,975 --> 00:30:51,075 We tested them beforehand 733 00:30:51,095 --> 00:30:53,355 before they even started in with the actual approach. 734 00:30:54,255 --> 00:30:57,675 Um, and then we, uh, as it relates to their happiness, 735 00:30:57,675 --> 00:30:58,795 their bliss, their confidence 736 00:30:58,795 --> 00:30:59,915 in their life, so on and so forth. 737 00:31:00,255 --> 00:31:02,515 And then after just week of using one week 738 00:31:02,515 --> 00:31:05,035 of using this technique, we tested them afterwards. 739 00:31:05,405 --> 00:31:07,795 Their numbers on average were four times happier, 740 00:31:07,865 --> 00:31:10,235 four times more blissful, four times more confident. 741 00:31:10,615 --> 00:31:13,315 And we also saw with, in the way it was set out, 742 00:31:13,315 --> 00:31:15,595 they were four times more present. 743 00:31:15,895 --> 00:31:18,075 So instead of only being present 10% of the time, 744 00:31:18,265 --> 00:31:20,155 they were present 40% of the time. 745 00:31:20,585 --> 00:31:24,395 Imagine living a life like that, living a life in purpose 746 00:31:25,175 --> 00:31:26,955 and a life that is blissful 747 00:31:27,105 --> 00:31:29,995 because you are here in the only place that exists. 748 00:31:30,375 --> 00:31:31,375 The present, 749 00:31:32,515 --> 00:31:35,995 - A great tool to help with being present is gratitude. 750 00:31:36,495 --> 00:31:38,875 - Oh my goodness, you just nailed it, 751 00:31:38,875 --> 00:31:39,875 girl. - . 752 00:31:42,995 --> 00:31:46,715 I, I try to be extremely grateful 753 00:31:46,935 --> 00:31:50,795 and I every morning say all the things that I'm grateful for 754 00:31:51,135 --> 00:31:54,595 and it helps me personally be in the present. 755 00:31:55,265 --> 00:31:57,675 - Yeah. Good for you. That's dynamite. 756 00:31:58,075 --> 00:31:59,435 I think that's a wonderful thing 757 00:31:59,435 --> 00:32:00,835 to be able to do with individuals. 758 00:32:01,095 --> 00:32:04,275 You know, there's actually this gratitude meditation 759 00:32:04,275 --> 00:32:05,955 where you feel angel's wings on your back. 760 00:32:05,955 --> 00:32:07,635 It's a guided meditation. Yeah. 761 00:32:08,175 --> 00:32:11,235 - You did that with me, um, like a month 762 00:32:11,235 --> 00:32:12,595 or two ago and Right, right. 763 00:32:13,395 --> 00:32:16,715 I still visualize and could feel my big fluffy 764 00:32:16,765 --> 00:32:17,765 wings. - . 765 00:32:17,765 --> 00:32:18,875 There you go. It's great. 766 00:32:19,135 --> 00:32:20,355 Hey, if anybody wants to 767 00:32:21,295 --> 00:32:24,675 and they send to the Adam Harman show@gmail.com, 768 00:32:25,105 --> 00:32:27,835 send me a link to the gratitude meditation. 769 00:32:28,225 --> 00:32:29,835 I'll send that out at no cost too. 770 00:32:30,675 --> 00:32:34,595 - I highly recommend all my listeners to check out 771 00:32:34,695 --> 00:32:39,405 and email Adam Harmon show gmail com to 772 00:32:40,305 --> 00:32:42,725 get all of what he is offering for free. 773 00:32:43,265 --> 00:32:47,085 Uh, the gratitude, uh, angel, uh, 774 00:32:47,625 --> 00:32:50,245 prayer is it, or Mm-Hmm. . It, it's just beautiful. 775 00:32:50,245 --> 00:32:51,325 - It's, I call it the triangle 776 00:32:51,325 --> 00:32:52,885 because we focus on our feet and our heart. 777 00:32:53,015 --> 00:32:54,685 Right. But it allows you to be able 778 00:32:54,685 --> 00:32:56,165 to feel wings on your back. 779 00:32:56,265 --> 00:32:58,085 And it's so interesting. 780 00:32:58,155 --> 00:33:00,645 Some people actually respond to it, like, 781 00:33:01,905 --> 00:33:03,885 it felt like something was on my back before, 782 00:33:03,905 --> 00:33:05,685 but I didn't realize it was angel wings. 783 00:33:05,915 --> 00:33:08,165 Yeah. It sort of brings back memories from the past from 784 00:33:08,165 --> 00:33:09,365 them, which is just lovely. 785 00:33:09,955 --> 00:33:13,085 - Yeah. I mean, I instantly just started sitting up 786 00:33:13,285 --> 00:33:14,525 straighter as we were talking about it. , 787 00:33:14,925 --> 00:33:19,685 - There you go. - . So, Adam, this has been beautiful 788 00:33:20,025 --> 00:33:21,165 and so enlightening 789 00:33:21,625 --> 00:33:26,035 and it's so in line with personally my purpose of, 790 00:33:26,415 --> 00:33:27,955 uh, the Gutsy Babe, right? 791 00:33:28,395 --> 00:33:32,315 I want people to, I want my, my, all my listeners to listen 792 00:33:32,315 --> 00:33:36,995 to their gut and lead with their gut and be gutsy in life. 793 00:33:37,425 --> 00:33:38,875 Yeah. And I thank you for that. 794 00:33:39,175 --> 00:33:40,995 So Adam, how can people reach out to you 795 00:33:40,995 --> 00:33:44,515 and learn more, uh, about you or your books 796 00:33:44,615 --> 00:33:46,715 or book a session with you even? Right. 797 00:33:46,945 --> 00:33:48,955 - Well, they can actually reach out to me 798 00:33:49,295 --> 00:33:52,675 by contacting me on email or by texting me, um, by phone. 799 00:33:53,015 --> 00:33:56,115 The email on that is once again the Adam Harman, 800 00:33:56,115 --> 00:33:59,875 that's H-A-R-M-A-N show@gmail.com saying, 801 00:34:00,075 --> 00:34:02,515 I wanna find out more or I wanna book a session. 802 00:34:02,905 --> 00:34:05,795 Another way is to contact me directly by text. 803 00:34:06,175 --> 00:34:09,315 And that number is 3 1 0 9 9 9 7 8 7 7. 804 00:34:09,315 --> 00:34:13,475 That's 3 1 9 9 9 7 8 7, excuse me, 805 00:34:13,475 --> 00:34:15,115 7 8 7 7. Alrighty. 806 00:34:15,425 --> 00:34:17,675 - Alright, Adam, thanks again for coming 807 00:34:17,735 --> 00:34:19,395 and sharing with our listeners today. 808 00:34:19,465 --> 00:34:22,195 This has been so beautiful and I thank you for your time. 809 00:34:22,825 --> 00:34:26,195 - Well, it has been my pleasure. Folks, get out there. 810 00:34:26,215 --> 00:34:29,635 Be gutsy. 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